We used a lock signals in the signal_map while emitting, because it was
not allowed to disconnect them while being emitted.
We used that lock to check if we where deleting an object during signal
emission.
Now that we allow to disconnect signals while they are being emitted, if
an object first disconnects, then gets deleted we can't know that a
signal was being emitted during the destructor.

This commit adds a new `_emitting` boolean member to Object to be set
while emitting and checked in the destructor, while removing the old
signal lock which is now unused.